Now, there's a friend of mine, who enjoys to a great deal, a good conversation. I say, who wouldn't? But here's the hitch, she expects everyone to enjoy that conversation, even if she's doing most of the talking. I say, who would?
How often is it that we realise the importance of good communication? We all want to do our share of talking and 'Lemme talk' talking and 'can't get over myself' talking and if that wasn't enough some 'preaching' talking. And then they expect us to say, Bring it on !!!
A good conversation is like a Bullish market, full of optimism, confidence and progressive expectations. Speculating about the other person's interests keeps the mind consistently working towards their changing levels of fascination towards us. And just like the bull, a bullish conversation provides you with a psychological thrust.
Who enjoys bearish conversation??? One which cannot self sustain, leave alone capturing the attention of others. Timing, here is the key point, which is often missed, leaving the other person gasping for breath.
After his 21st attempt at asking me out, I decided to give this guy one chance to take me out for lunch. Enjoying my orgasmic Pasta Arrabiata , I had already given this guy a miss. But sometimes, the most random of conversations can turn out to be Bullish. With his diversified portfolio of interests and experiences, he sure did manage to make a short run profit for himself.
An enticing conversation can open you up to something new and exotic. A rebound from a 'falling knife' situation is difficult but never an impossible task. Give in to your inhibitions and leave that tinge of apprehensiveness home to go all out and enjoy a Bullish conversation.
How often is it that we realise the importance of good communication? We all want to do our share of talking and 'Lemme talk' talking and 'can't get over myself' talking and if that wasn't enough some 'preaching' talking. And then they expect us to say, Bring it on !!!
A good conversation is like a Bullish market, full of optimism, confidence and progressive expectations. Speculating about the other person's interests keeps the mind consistently working towards their changing levels of fascination towards us. And just like the bull, a bullish conversation provides you with a psychological thrust.
Who enjoys bearish conversation??? One which cannot self sustain, leave alone capturing the attention of others. Timing, here is the key point, which is often missed, leaving the other person gasping for breath.
After his 21st attempt at asking me out, I decided to give this guy one chance to take me out for lunch. Enjoying my orgasmic Pasta Arrabiata , I had already given this guy a miss. But sometimes, the most random of conversations can turn out to be Bullish. With his diversified portfolio of interests and experiences, he sure did manage to make a short run profit for himself.
An enticing conversation can open you up to something new and exotic. A rebound from a 'falling knife' situation is difficult but never an impossible task. Give in to your inhibitions and leave that tinge of apprehensiveness home to go all out and enjoy a Bullish conversation.
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