What if the gossiping during an impeccable dinner at your favourite place turns out to be the most exciting conversations that you have had in a long time? For me, it was as delectable as a blueberry cheesecake !!
Whispering sweet nothings into his ears, dressed in a white kimono top with a pair of black jeans and white stilettos, hair tied up high in a ponytail, she could, any day, give a 20-something, a run for her money. What part of me screamed 'WOW', even I didn't realize it. Romance was in the air for the both of them. Not more than 25, the guy was all admiration for the lady.
'Cougar Dating'. Interrupted in my thoughts, I looked speechless (my favorite expression). Yeah, that's what my friend told me. A part of me wanted to sit there all night long and observe the lady. What is it in the older women that men are so drawn towards them? I mean, what does that leave us with? Older men???
Is it the confidence, comfort level, maturity, level headedness, independence, understanding, less complications or no strings attached? My friend said that most men reach their sexual peaks between the age of 25-35 years, whereas, for most women, the age lies between 35-45. "Women your age are needy." What kind of statement was that???
But, if I think of it calmly, he had a point. Men, unlike women, do not look for stability all the time. What they want is a female counterpart, who they can hang out with, without any strings attached. Here's where females my age take a back seat. How many of us are willing to date without any form of commitment. We, females, have an amazing visionary capacity and our imagination runs wild when it comes to dating men.
"When we can have friends who are older to us, then what is wrong with having a grilfriend who's double my age." To this, I asked, what happens when it comes to settling down? I was amused by the reply I got for this one. "Do you think guys think this far?" Yeah right, who was I kidding?
It all sounds too good to be true. A charmed circle of adoring men who crave older, glamorous females – and beautiful women who want to be admired and appreciated. Age is a number, not a barrier. But, how many couples are we talking about here? This reversal of the stereotype may be an important cultural shift or just a loopy-love deviation from the norm. Will these ripples turn into seismic waves in the 21st century?
Well, we definitely have to wait and watch out for this one. The important thing is the quality of what you share together. Love is meant to conquer all, isn’t it?
Whispering sweet nothings into his ears, dressed in a white kimono top with a pair of black jeans and white stilettos, hair tied up high in a ponytail, she could, any day, give a 20-something, a run for her money. What part of me screamed 'WOW', even I didn't realize it. Romance was in the air for the both of them. Not more than 25, the guy was all admiration for the lady.
'Cougar Dating'. Interrupted in my thoughts, I looked speechless (my favorite expression). Yeah, that's what my friend told me. A part of me wanted to sit there all night long and observe the lady. What is it in the older women that men are so drawn towards them? I mean, what does that leave us with? Older men???
Is it the confidence, comfort level, maturity, level headedness, independence, understanding, less complications or no strings attached? My friend said that most men reach their sexual peaks between the age of 25-35 years, whereas, for most women, the age lies between 35-45. "Women your age are needy." What kind of statement was that???
But, if I think of it calmly, he had a point. Men, unlike women, do not look for stability all the time. What they want is a female counterpart, who they can hang out with, without any strings attached. Here's where females my age take a back seat. How many of us are willing to date without any form of commitment. We, females, have an amazing visionary capacity and our imagination runs wild when it comes to dating men.
"When we can have friends who are older to us, then what is wrong with having a grilfriend who's double my age." To this, I asked, what happens when it comes to settling down? I was amused by the reply I got for this one. "Do you think guys think this far?" Yeah right, who was I kidding?
It all sounds too good to be true. A charmed circle of adoring men who crave older, glamorous females – and beautiful women who want to be admired and appreciated. Age is a number, not a barrier. But, how many couples are we talking about here? This reversal of the stereotype may be an important cultural shift or just a loopy-love deviation from the norm. Will these ripples turn into seismic waves in the 21st century?
Well, we definitely have to wait and watch out for this one. The important thing is the quality of what you share together. Love is meant to conquer all, isn’t it?
COUGAR DATING....reminds me of the famous song Mrs Robinson ...the affair that broke all the shackles of the scoiety Mr. Gladstone & Mrs Robinson .......................lolzz
ReplyDeletenyways i again said its the curiousity effectt :P :P nywayss nicely written and good and keen observation..
ever realize every girl or lady tries and plans the most , schedules the most and look fo rthere comfort zone....you see the whole idea of the females is to control the siuation ..and i mean any situation and be on the driving seat.....things start to fall when she is young and the male counterpart is older and then the advices start turning into opinions and then obligatory rules and then someones ego is jolted....so u c the whole difference comes ......( hahaha ) and if it comes to sexual apetite , its as far as i know , the comfortability factor you njoy with your partner ...rather than a fling or sayy an attractive short term snitch if its like a pure understanding.....so it all ends ....
a) How much you know bout yourself ?
b) How much the other knows about yourself?
c) and how comfortable you both are with each other.....
Nice observations nywayss Kanika :)
Very keen and correct observation. So, we have a few more years to reach "the peak" :)
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