Lets see how does the cycle of relationship formation work-go to a party, down some drinks, make eye contact with "the" person, flirtatious invite, move on with the kissing and at times wake up next to him....So you are labelled half a couple now. Wow!!! Dat was easy.
Over the next few days, or in some cases years, wonder if you ever had anything in common with that person.
Is this the idea of our generation's consuming "real" love?
In a time of internet dating, dating at wine tasting sessions, speed dating, casual dating, serious dating, are we really looking at finding love or is it just the convenience of it???
What with a pre planned list of topics to be discussed on your first date, making eye contact, all positive talks, current gossips, not trying too hard to impress; we all are conditioned to behave in a programmed fashion. So who exactly are we???
Our sense of self worth is so wrapped up in others' opinion of us that we hide the deeper parts of ourselves from the fear of rejection. It’s better to let someone else decide that you don’t fit, rather than abandon yourself for the sake of being liked or dumping yourself before they can !!!
Go out and tell yourself in 'Carrie' fashion "I' m pretty, I'm smart, I'm nice and I'm a catch!"
Over the next few days, or in some cases years, wonder if you ever had anything in common with that person.
Is this the idea of our generation's consuming "real" love?
In a time of internet dating, dating at wine tasting sessions, speed dating, casual dating, serious dating, are we really looking at finding love or is it just the convenience of it???
What with a pre planned list of topics to be discussed on your first date, making eye contact, all positive talks, current gossips, not trying too hard to impress; we all are conditioned to behave in a programmed fashion. So who exactly are we???
Our sense of self worth is so wrapped up in others' opinion of us that we hide the deeper parts of ourselves from the fear of rejection. It’s better to let someone else decide that you don’t fit, rather than abandon yourself for the sake of being liked or dumping yourself before they can !!!
Go out and tell yourself in 'Carrie' fashion "I' m pretty, I'm smart, I'm nice and I'm a catch!"
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