Catch 22: You'll Be There For Me & Him !!!

That is perfectly fine swthrt. Whatever happened, was a thing in the past (what did I ever do, please tell me that atleast). You do not have to bother yourself with it (it has been bothering me for quiet some time now). And yeah, you do not have to say sorry at all (heights of modesty, you should be the one saying it, B****RD). That is the only thing I am ever asking of you (really???). I still love you (WOW, he still does, so we are not breaking up, yay !!!)

We Will Always Be Friends!!! (tears, tears and some more tears)

Ohh, in case you did not guess till now, this is a guy breaking up with his so called girlfriend, who he still loves but cannot be with her anymore like that. Like a boyfriend, silly. So, he chooses to be a friend, instead (oh my god, how will I ever be able to pay you back for this honor).

Sounds like a regular thing? Nice!! So we all have met such scums in our lives one way or the other. When two people break up, the last words you want to hear are We Can Still Be Friends. How in the world do you expect to be friends when you have shared a life (almost) together. You have seen each other grow, seen them fall down, been there for each other in times of despair, shared the most precious memories together, emotionally connected, disconnected and re-connected. You have seen the best and worst in each other, deep down you know that you are right for each other and for heaven sake, You are 'THE COUPLE'.

Your friends have admired you for so long, wanted to be in your shoes all the time; you are what is a socially enviable couple. But do I care???

What is it in us, that is piled up so high that we, at times, do not care about a person's feelings. The other person is not emotionally dead. And he/she has cared for you for so long. It's not like you started dating yesterday that the memories of all these will wash away the next time you wake up. And the worst part, you still like/love him/her. Then, what is stopping you from being with him/her?

I HAVE CHANGED!!!

That gets me to the question: Can Ex's Be Friends???

Impossible. Though, a lot of you will differ on this, but I, for one, cannot be the emotional support for someone who's left me. Lemme tell you this, it's not easy seeing your ex with someone else. You were suppose to be there. You were there. And, honestly, most people would still want to be there.

In a relationship, there would always be one person, who will move on first and when that happens, the other person is left dreading herself/himself, comparing himself/herself with the new person in his/her life. There is an irresistable desire in all of us to be irresistably desired, and when that object of affection is 'someone' else, hearts and minds are stimulated beyond appreciable levels.

Sometimes we tend to be in despair when the person we love leaves us, but the truth is, it's not our loss, but theirs, for they left the only person who couldn't give up on them !!!